Image from www.life123.comSadly, the amount of funerals we attend seems to multiply as we age. And what’s most upsetting at times is when people are disrespectful at these somber occasions because they didn’t brush up on their etiquette- or maybe even common sense. Remember these things next time you attend one. While many people may not notice your appropriate behavior, they will certainly notice when you act in bad taste.
- Only attend funerals for people you know or whom your spouse/family was close to. You should blend into the crowd, not waving to everyone you know like it is a social event. Remember that while you might have already reconciled the passing of this person, others may need time to grieve.
- Never take pictures or video/phone media to record any part of the service. These ceremonies, unless nationally broadcast, are meant to pay homage in privacy. Besides, the result of this media usually only relives the sadness.
- If you’ve offered to help with the planning, food arrangements, or accommodations for guests, do not charge the family for such services. People get taken advantage of in times of distress, and you should be there for support, not profit.
- Be careful of your commentary. Comments about the size of the funeral or stories of things ‘far worse’ that have happened to yourself or your friends are not appropriate in this setting. Never complain about the food, weather, or time frame of the ceremony.
Making Etiquette Easy,
Susan K. Medina
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