Image from Bible Prophesy Update According to repeated statistics, the likelihood of divorce in the United States is high. And as unfortunate as it may be, none of us are in the place to step fully into one another's shoes to comprehend what they've gone through when couples decide to go their separate ways. What we can do, however, is politely and appropriately respond to our friends and colleagues with etiquette and respect.
When navigating around this difficult topic, here are some things to remember:
- In the Workplace: If you hear that someone is getting a divorce, a simple, "How are you doing? Please let me know if there is anything I can do," is an appropriate response. Offering your sympathies could be considered an unintended insult. Remember, most people like to keep their personal life separate from their work life, so always respect that first.
- Divorce Parties: While many are still on the fence about these celebrations of singledom, I'm a believer that there is always some kind of loss in this situation, and celebrating it- namely with gifts and alcohol - isn't the best way to go. Steer clear of conviviality in honor of this occasion.
- The Thought that Counts: While I'm also not an advocate of sending a 'divorce card,' a thoughtful call or note can be appreciated. Instead of focusing on the bad, try to suggest a night out to see a funny movie or going to dinner instead of ex-spouse bashing.
- Keep your Thoughts to Yourself: Even though you may disagree with the choices of another, you should always keep your thoughts to yourself once a decision has been made. This is to protect any children involved, as well as assure your continued professionalism and/or loyalty to the person.
- Don't Ask: Always remember that the affected person is the only one who has the right to bring up the matter of their divorce. Do not ask invasive questions or personal questions on the matter since you don't know all the facts.
Susan K. Medina
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