Image from www.guardian.co.ukToday’s business chivalry no longer makes a clear distinction for the way men should behave towards women and visa versa. And while chivalry is quickly changing with the tides, it is being replaced with a more all-encompassing gender-free idea of courtesy and helping people who truly have need. Here are some things to remember about chivalry in a business environment:
- Get the Door: Traditionally, it was only considered proper for men to hold the door for women. Today, whoever happens to be in the lead of a group is expected to open the door and hold it for everyone to enter. (Though most gentlemen will insist a woman walk through a doorway before them.)
- Foot the Bill: Men have almost always paid for meals in the past. These days, whomever does the inviting or organizing is considered the host and should pick up the tab for all invited guests.
- Putting on Coats: While in the past, men would assist women in preparing for the elements, though it is not obligatory for either gender to aid in this act any longer. Unless someone is having trouble, it’s acceptable to let everyone take care of their own coat.
- Stand at Attention: Men were expected to stand every time a female entered the room, even if she was returning from the restroom. Today, it is considered respectful to stand when greeting a client or superior of either gender and I personally think it is very considerate for a man to stand when a woman returns to the table or enters the room for the first time, though not required.
- Pulling out the Chair: While this chivalrous act is still very much alive in the dating culture, it should be vetoed for business. If someone requires assistance, they will let you know.
Making Etiquette Easy,
Susan K. Medina
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