Image from Travel ViviMany of us have friends who live miles away and have graciously opened their homes to our visits over the years. And while we all like to think we’ve been the best guests they’ve ever entertained, it doesn’t hurt to brush-up on a few tips to keep things smooth on the guest-front:
- Wait to be invited. Just because you have a friend or relative who lives in a destination you would deem a ‘vacation spot,’ it doesn’t mean that they necessarily want to entertain company. Be sure the offer has been extended before you book a flight.
- Do not overstay your welcome. As a general rule, two to three nights for an out of town visit are acceptable. If you are coming over for dinner only, it’s appropriate to stay for about one hour after the meal.
- Actively show your appreciation. If you are staying for more than one night, consider cooking dinner for the family or treating them to something special, like dinner at their favorite restaurant. This shows appreciation for their wonderful hospitality.
- Be respectful of their current household nuances. If you’re staying with the most organized person you know, try to keep your belongings neatly tucked away (and always make your bed). If you notice they take the trash out quite often, be sure to help and collect your trash as well. The important thing is to blend into their lifestyle.
- Extend the same offer. It’s frustrating to be on the entertaining side and have your guests tell you that they can’t wait to visit again, without mentioning that you are welcome in their home. Unless you don’t have enough space, it is proper to extend the same offer to your hosts.
Making Etiquette Easy,
Susan K. Medina
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